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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

The Choking Game Kills

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PARENTS, TELL YOUR KIDS AND EVERYONE YOU KNOW.
KIDS, TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
THIS IS NO GAME…THIS GAME KILLS.


Among children and teens, it's a game that consists of getting "high" by causing themselves to pass out. It goes by several different names: "choking game", "pass out game", "fainting game", "dream game", "space monkey", "American dreaming game", "tingle game" or simply "black out." Whatever name it goes by in your neighborhood, the game kills.

Protect your loved ones by finding out everything you can about this deadly game.

Aside from its deadly consequences, another danger of the game is that it is harmful to the brain every time that is done. It cuts off oxygen to the brain. This causes small amounts of brain damage each and every time it is done. Repeating this action will have long term detrimental effect on the person.

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We are terribly sorry for your loss. We recently lost our daughter,age 14, the same way. Her name is Shawntae Chavez, she passed away on 8-22-05. We also would like to make every parent and teen aware of this deadly game. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Contact us if you would like to talk. 505-341-3553
-Patrick and Carla

Posted by Patrick at Wednesday, September 07, 2005 22:59:58

Dear family of Kimberly:
My heart broke again, the moment I heard of your precious girl's death.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
On September 27, 2005 a Dr. Phil show will air on this topic. Another Mom, Michele Mansfield in Arizona started an online support e mail group, supportforthosethatlostachildtothechokinggame@yahoogroups.com
You are welcome to join, if for nothing else then to just be with us and read others stories of their experience with this type of loss. As with all who have lost a child this way, I will carry you and Kimberly in my heart, always.
Still loving all four of my children,
Sarah Pacatte Gabriel Mordecai's Mom
July 31, 1991
May 6, 2005

http://StillLovingMyGabriel...

Posted by Sarah Pacatte at Saturday, September 17, 2005 15:53:31

To All who have lost your precious children, My heart goes out to you. I recently watched this on 20/20 and was so saddend at the stories I heard and thought about talking to my older children but didn't think this was happening in our area.See not only has it hit the American states it's here in Canada. I too, many years ago played this game and new of it but never thought anyone was still playing till now.My husband who is from Michigan played it also as a teen. Last night our daughter 11years old came home and told me about a game her 10year old friend played at a birthday party and taught her...the blackout game..I am so glad my daughter played with a friend as results could have been devastating playing alone but scared to what could have happen if she never told me..I have since discussed the dangers and results of this game and asked my daughter to notify me if she ever hears this game being played by any other kids. I also contacted the other parent and asked her to contact the birthday child to notify her parents ..the more parents are aware the better.I have contacted the school principal to let her know my child knows about this game, she (the principal) had never heard of it! So I have e-mailed some stories and information on it and explained what I have learned. I made a difference just by making them aware and as a concerend and caring parent of 4 children I will continue to make this "game" known... known for being a deadly one. Thank-you all for sharing your devastating stories as hard as it is telling it...it has helped me be aware. I have been lucky to find out and discuss this with my children before anything happened when I may have bluffed it off if I didnt hear your stories. God Bless You All and Your Families.

Posted by Carianne Burgin, Canada at Monday, October 03, 2005 15:58:34

My best friend's son recently passed away from playing this game. I would like to research this more and am wondering if you all could point me in the direction of some web sites that might give me more information about this. I have two children and am trying to figure out the best way to broach this subject with them. As I talk to many people here at work (people in their 40's even) I am finding out this is not a new thing. These people were playing this "game" when they were teens. I had never even heard of it until about a month ago. Hopefully through websites like these more parents will become aware of the dangers of these games. I am encouraged however, by the fact that Carianne's daughter felt comfortable enough talking with her about it. So many children these days are not willing/or don't know how to communicate with their parents about these kinds of issues. God bless all of you and your children.

Posted by rebecca nobs at Tuesday, November 15, 2005 09:21:16

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of those families who lost children due to this foolish "game". My heart goes out to all of you. I have friends who have played this "game," and I think that it is important to get out the severity and harm of this "game" to people around the world. I am a journalism student at Omaha Central High School, in Omaha, Nebraska. I am thinking about writing an article for the school newspaper to get out the message that this " game" is more than dangerous, that it is deadly. I would like the help of those who have been affected by this "game." If anyone has information on it or a story to tell, please E-mail me back at: Dolceboy21uk@yahoo.com or Dolceboy21uk@hotmail.com. Please help me with my mission. I can't accomplish this without the help of others.
God Bless,
Jared Spence

Posted by Jared Spence at Friday, November 18, 2005 18:23:59

My grandson is asurvivor of the choking game. Our family is devastated to think an eleven year old child would even think to do this. We want to learn more about this We don't know the damages yet he.s still in the hospital. Where do we go for help? Our sympathies and prayers go out to other families that have lost their babies to this tragic game.
sincerely,
L Gemondo

Posted by linda gemondo at Wednesday, April 19, 2006 23:04:08

My young sister has lost two friends from this game. One of her friends Theresa passed on Saturday playing this deadly game. Something needs to be done. This game needs to be shown on TV and explained to parents, etc.

This can be prevented...

Posted by Allie at Wednesday, May 10, 2006 16:57:40

Many years ago my boyfriend played the game and lost his life to it. I know the the devistation that it can cause.
When I found Tandy on the morning of April 11th 1992 my whole world came crashing down on my. If it was not for my God and my family I would not have made it.
I now have three wonderful girls between the ages of 10 and 13 and I pray to GOd every day that they are protected against this world and it's worldly games.
I am so grieved about your daughter and all of the others who have throught it was just a "game" and I pray that more and more people get educated about this before it happens to them!
I am going to talk with my daughters about this "game?" so that they will know what might happen if they do this or what to do if they know of a friend who is doing this.

Posted by Cheryl Krueger at Thursday, June 08, 2006 09:57:41

I heard about this game and your website through Focus on the Family broadcast. Thank you for your willingness to share with others in your pain and brokenness. May God bless you and bring forth fruit from Kim's death - more than you ever thought or imagined. I am a mother of teens and preteens - as a result of this broadcast I will be talking to them about it and warning them of the dangers. Thank you for speaknig out.

Posted by Becca at Thursday, June 08, 2006 10:24:52

`I just heard your broadcast on Focus on the Family. I have two daughters, ages 10 & 12. Thank you so much for sharing your heartbreaking story. It is obvious that your faith is carrying you through this. I believe God wanted me to hear your story. I was just ready to step into the shower, but stopped when I heard it. This is the first I have heard of this game and I'm so thankful to learn of it so that I can educate my children and other people in my life. May God continue to bless your mission!

Posted by Deb at Thursday, June 08, 2006 11:25:24

My heart goes out to the family who have lost loved ones or know someone who has. I heard about this game thismorning on the radio and i was horrified. I never knew such things exist. I called a friend who's daughter is sixteen to inquire if she had heard about this game. The teenage assured me that the kids do it all the time on school property. she says that the principals and teachers know nothing about it. I will be calling the school first thing tomorrow and bring it to their attention. There are so many natural disasters that harm people daily. To have our children die from games just does not seem reasoable. I feel that with everyones voice spreading the news that this can be stopped. Thank you for providing your listeners with valuable information.. God bless you all.

Posted by latoria at Thursday, June 08, 2006 12:25:59

Hi Tim and Carol,

I have thought about writing ever since Kimber's death, but just haven't got it done. When I first heard about it and after her funeral, I used the information I got from you to tell everyone I knew who had teenagers. Many wouldn't listen, because they have "good kids" who wouldn't do something like that. I explained that its the good kids who would never do drugs who are doing this innocently.
Thank you for sharing. I know its hard, but keep up the good work. God's work. May He bless you and strengthen you with the knowledge that you are saving many teen's lives.

Your Friend, Sue Hughes

Posted by Sue Hughes at Thursday, June 08, 2006 12:40:44

Way back in the early '70s, a friend of mine used to make herself pass out by holding her breath. She did this so she could go home from school. I am short-winded, so I never could do it. It seemed so cool at the time. How wrong I was. I am truly saddened that our children have to be exposed to satan's lies. We can defeat this by praying and rebuking satan and his demonic ploys.I pray in the Holy name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior that this will stop. May God continue to bless each of us. Philippians 4:13

Posted by K. Merket at Thursday, June 08, 2006 13:51:57

I was on my home from work when I heard of this on the broadcast. I was so heart broken. My prayers are with each family that has had this happened to them. For 16 years I have been blessed to work in a Christian school and to come in contact with children of different ages everyday. I am also the mother of 4 wonderful children, one 22, two 19 and one that is only 8. This is only another example of how the devil is trying to get our young people. Any way he can destoy! But thanks to the parents like Kimberly's who want to make a difference in spite of the pain. Great is your reward! I'm sure your story and many others has helped save a many from this! God bless you all!

Posted by Polly Shuman at Thursday, June 08, 2006 22:57:14

Mr. & Mrs Wilson,
Thank you for keeping the dialogue of The Choking Game on-going. Your vigilance has made huge gains in raising awareness and has save more children than we will ever know. May that bring peace to Kimber's family. And peace to all of our families greiving over the sensless death of their child to this activity.
May God Bless,
Kate Blake (Dylan's Mom)
http://www.ChokingGameInfor...

Posted by Kate at Friday, June 09, 2006 06:49:08

Thank you for making me aware of this new game. I recently discovered my daughter has a problem with "cutting"...this is just another thing for me to look out for. As a single parent it isn't easy. Thanks for the info.
Dr. Dobson, keep it coming - we ALL need this important information!

Posted by Jennifer Reynolds at Friday, June 09, 2006 20:29:49

I lost my baby boy Jeff Espey on Jan. 24th, 2006. I know what this horrible game can do to your family. I miss him so much everyday. I wish I have seen the signs. I seen the bloodshot eyes days before. He told me it was from allergies. I have been trying to do the same thing as you, I have done newspaper articles and trying to get to the kids and parents. Please let me know if there is anything I can help you with. I would love to get more involved. You have my deepest sympathy. I truly know the pain you are feeling. Wishing you would of seen it and done more. I loved my son with all my heart and miss him so much. I admire you for all you are doing.
LaSheryl Hackenwerth
Jeff Espey's Mom

Posted by LaSheryl Hackenwerth at Monday, June 12, 2006 23:21:21

I am so sorry for your loss... I have heard of so many children/teens dying from this, it's just ridiculous. It's terrible what peer pressure can do... I have heard of this game in my area, but only once and no one I know does it, thank God. I consider myself lucky that I never got pulled into anything like this, but I still feel your loss, and everyone else's who has lost someone to this... You'll be in my prayers and I wish you the very best.

Posted by Carissa Holyoake at Monday, July 24, 2006 13:32:52

I also lost a son to this "game". He was 16 years old. It's been a long road of recovery and finding a new normal in the past 20 months. I too share a lot on him and the hope to prevent this happening to other families

Posted by Loni at Monday, August 07, 2006 00:31:28

I just want to say thank-you for all your work here and send wishes for peace and healing for your family today. I know how hard this is; my 13 year old son died experimenting with this last September and his first birthday in heaven was so very hard for us. Kimberly was clearly a wonderful girl and so loved and well cared for by her parents.

Colin's Mom Trish

Posted by Trish Russell at Thursday, August 31, 2006 10:36:26

My relative told me many years later that when she was a teen,she was with a group of kids playing outdoors- she was 14 at the time,they held her tight around her middle until she passed out!She said she saw herself floating up above herself and knew she was dying. The kids got scared and started thumping her on the back and she came back! Thank the good Lord.I would not have had this wonderful vibrant young woman in my life, and it breaks my heart. God Bless all of yoy who have lost your loved ones, Thank Goc our hope is in the Lord and we know they are safe and well loved.

Posted by Mary Rose at Friday, October 20, 2006 11:51:09

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Wilson,
I was just shocked and saddened when I saw your story on living the life. I don't know if you remember me but I worked at olathe christian school about 8 years ago. I remember seeing Kimberly's smiling face around the school and I remember you, Carol, being up at the school. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. May
God bless you and your family.
God bless, Stacy Shankles(Noboa)

Posted by Stacy Shankles(Noboa) at Friday, October 20, 2006 15:25:58

ny m8t played this game and almost died... im 14... RIP ur precious daughter shes safe now xxxxxx

Posted by orlaith at Saturday, December 16, 2006 16:30:04

I am extremely sorry. I feel horrible, because I am 13 and play this game often. Now, looking at everything makes me never want to do this again. I won't even think about it. I am expierencing a huge guilt because of the way you feel and how my own parents would feel. It is great that you are spreading the know of the pass out game . I would love to hear from you, if you have time for me. Thank you.

calimillette@yahoo.com

Posted by Cali Millette at Sunday, January 28, 2007 01:55:14

I am very sorry to hear of what happened to your daughter it must be so tragic.I have never played the game and dont intend to.It sounds very painful.bless you x

Posted by sophi at Tuesday, April 03, 2007 13:34:25

Dear The Parents Of KimbeR Wilson,,x

I read the bliss magazine and found out about this tragic death.I am really sory to hear what happened about the loss of your very pretty daughter.

I wish all the best to your future and hope it is bright, you should always know that your daughter is there up in heaven thinking of you and looking down with her love to her loving parents [[ you ]]and watching..

All my love ,,,xxx Im sorry to hear ,, Aimee

Posted by Aimee Jones - Age 12 at Tuesday, April 10, 2007 06:25:23

hello i am so terribly sorry for your loss. I am 11 years old and was reading my bliss magazine and thought why dont i find out what this 'game' is. So on to this site i came and i am greatly thanked for you making a website to notify as many people as possible. I myself have not played the game and never will... i swear i will tell everyone i know about the dangers of the choking game and do my best to make sure nobody i know will be stupid enough to risk their own life.
Thank-you if you have taken the time to read this and i will keep my word

Posted by Sydney Nicole Hunter at Wednesday, April 11, 2007 13:40:08

r.i.p too ur daughter x x am 15 and have had thoughts about playin this ''game'' but after watching the video nd reading what uv wrote i will never play this so called game as i no how much heartache it puts people thu x x x x x x r.i.p kimber x x x x x x x

Posted by sarah mairs at Thursday, April 12, 2007 17:12:22

Kimbers family,
im sorry for your loss, people at my school play it there about fifteen, but i am never going to i want to live my life and furfill my dreams. I heard about kimber in BLISS magazine i couldnt belive it. I hope you are alright. I am thirteen, and i am in all the top sets i my school and all the teachers say my gcse grades should be good.
RIP KIMBERxxxxxxxxxx
Heather 13

Posted by Heather Techrahedron at Monday, April 23, 2007 11:36:44

I am 14, and i learned about and started playing the "game" last year. I didnt think of it as dangerous. I didnt really think anything of it until one of my friends died. Now I will never play this game ever again. I dont know what made me want to do the "game" in the first place, but i am just glad I stopped.

Posted by marissa longsworth at Wednesday, April 25, 2007 23:23:57

i am very sorry 4 your loss and i read the story about the chokeing game

Posted by laura at Monday, April 30, 2007 15:27:38

to mrs and mr wilson me and my brother have played this game and i never knew the damage that it could cause my friend at school done it and she never woke up till 20 minutes later and we all where worried im so sorry about your loss and i think it is great you telling people about the damage it could cause by reading this i have learned never to do this game again
many thoughts
adam and aimee

Posted by aimee at Saturday, May 19, 2007 05:48:30

I am very sorry to hear about your daughter. I read her story in a magazine called 'Bliss'. It was sad how she died. I recently lost my friend from this. She wanted to hang around with the cool gang. All of my mates and I told her not to. She was also encouraged by some boys she fancied. She had a wonderful life,everyone wanted to be her friend, but she wanted more. Once again, I am very sorry.
Many Thoughts & Best Wishes

Posted by Nina at Monday, July 02, 2007 14:22:44

I LIVE IN BRANTFORD, ON.CANADA. MY SON YANNICK PASSED AWAY APR.5/05, FROM THE CHOKING GAME. I ADDRESSED ALL THE SIGNS, BUT HE HAD ANSWERS FOR EVERYTHING. I FOUND HIM HANGING IN THE BASEMENT. I CAN NEVER GET THAT PICTURE, OUT OF MY HEAD. WE, HAVE TO STOP THIS, AND NOW, BEFORE MORE LIVES ARE LOST. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. SHARI WHITEHEAD

Posted by SHARI WHITEHEAD at Sunday, July 08, 2007 21:51:24

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Wilson.

After reading an article in "Bliss" magazine about this chocking game I realised what a horrible idea this game is. People should come into schools and explain this. Thankfully nobody I know plays this game.
I would like to give you all my love and hope you suceed in elimenating this game.

Posted by Molly age 12 at Sunday, August 19, 2007 13:37:46

Dear Kimber,
I miss you so much. You would be 18 now and running cross country with Melissa. I miss your laugh and your hugs and all the fun things you used to do. I love you. MOM

Posted by carol Wilson at Sunday, October 14, 2007 08:43:43

Dear friends,
Thank you for all you kind words. We do still want to spred the word, but we don't have many oppertunities. It seems that no one wants to hear about one more danger to our children. How will we stop them if we don't know it is going on?
Kimber's Mom

Posted by carol Wilson at Sunday, October 14, 2007 08:46:46

My daughter just discovered this game over the weekend and was caught at school on Monday. I am so thankful for a mom who heard and reported this to the school. I am researching everything I can about this now, but don't know how to help stop this madness. I am so sorry for the pain that you must go through everyday. As I read these websites all I keep thinking is this could have been my child. Or she could have been an accomplice to some else's death. I can never thank that mom enough.

Posted by Dawn at Wednesday, December 05, 2007 01:58:53

R.I.P Kimber, Someone Close To Me Tried This Chocking Game & Every One Who Knew About What Happened To Kimber Knew How Fatal It Could Have Been. We Made Sure She Wasnt Stupid Enough To Do It Again. Me & My Friend Are Here To Support Her Family And Friends Although We Dont Know Them! You're Safe With The Angels Darling. Rest In Peace Forever Longer. Xxx

Posted by Lindsay & Phoebe at Thursday, December 20, 2007 07:01:13

I just recently played this game at a party! I did not know it was bad and that it could kill you I thought you could only die if you do it to long and stop breathing can you explain to me how this works? thanks- kori davis

Posted by kori davis at Friday, January 04, 2008 12:48:36

I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers today and every day

Posted by passerby at Friday, February 29, 2008 10:17:51

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